Our minds
were malleable and empty as babies. There were no ethics, principles, ego,
responsibilities, concern for reputation, philosophies that we were forced to
live with. We were naked. Naked in thought. It was probably the naivest
definition of freedom known to us.
As babies
we followed our id - our basic desires. We peed wherever we liked. We laughed,
we cried at our own whim. We never scrutinized our actions under the lens of
ethics or morality. We never worried about any impairment of our reputation if
we cried/ peed incessantly. We were not punished for sleeping late and for
being disobedient. People loved us and kissed us for being naughty. We had no
responsibilities, but we were the bosses. We were the most privileged member of
our family. We never perplexed ourselves with abstract questions about
nature and God. At best, we were just interested in knowing how far the stars
and Moon are and who lives there. Back then, money had no significance,
struggle for money was stupid. Studying was difficult, it seemed like an
inconsequential activity we engaged ourselves in, killing our play time and TV
time. Academic degrees were waste. Sports was the way to go. All were friends,
no enemies.
We grew
older. We reached high school. We were naked before. It was somehow shameful to
be naked at this age. We clothed ourselves with some amounts of ethics,
principles. We started talking in terms of ethical and unethical. Ethical was
good, unethical was bad. Gods were ethical, demons were unethical. Politicians
were ethical, criminals were unethical. We wanted to be ethical. We also
developed principles. Family, friends and schools were among our limited
sources. We must be punctual. We must respect elders. We must be disciplined.
We must be kind and humble. All these principles had a great fan following.
Undoubtedly, we wanted to be principled. This stage provided us a skeleton for
distinguishing between entities and activities in future. We were being
prepared for the future.
Slowly
and steadily time ticked by. We crossed stages after stages. One day we found
ourselves to be adults. Adult life is a challenge. We find ourselves
clothed with responsibilities, concerns and philosophies. We have families to
look after. Companies to take care of. Stress levels have risen. Parties have
become infrequent. Solitude is what one starts craving for. Life has become
more demanding. It seems to be a cyclical loop till you take a retirement. We
have started pondering on the basic meaning of life more than ever before. We
more often than not think about the futility of our actions. We let out a
sigh,"I wish I could be a child again!"
But we
must understand that life is not just about our desires. It is not as simple as
an individual's desire. On a Venn diagram if you plot more than 7 billion sets
than the intersection is what one must aim at. Well, primary question that
comes to the mind is whether intersection actually exists? Life is about
survival and progress at the same time. Survival is impossible without
innovation. So is progress. I wish to lead a happy life but so does the entire
mankind. In such a case, rules and regulations are very essential. Fair
distribution of opportunities and rewards is essential. A framework is required
to which we must adhere to with a goal of maximizing our own happiness. This
framework has to be firmly rooted in ethics, principles, ego,
responsibilities, concern for reputation and philosophies. They form the
cornerstones of such a framework.
Adults
have the necessary knowledge and discipline to drive human progress. They have
the responsibility of the entire mankind. They are the torch-bearers. What you
give today is what your posterity will receive tomorrow! We are here because
someone in the past did it for us. You were not expected to turn into a crybaby
when your turn comes to deliver. At best, we can term that desire to be just a
wishful thinking.